One of my favorite things about Sansa? She’s got domestic desires.
She wants to lead, yes, but she also wants to have a family and puppies and be in charge of a household. Some of that is her patriarchal training, of course, but some of it is just what she’s good at and what she likes to do.
Not only that, but she’s a character people rarely beat down for being anti-feminist (at least in the “good” parts of fandom).
Do you know how rare that is? How refreshing that she exists on the same level as characters like Daenerys and Arya et al? As a feminist who dearly loves everything domestic, I feel closer to Sansa (and Catelyn) than all other characters in fantasy.
Girls can have dreams about cooking and designing beautiful homes without being tools of the patriarchy, yo. They deserve proper representation and respect.