part vixen part wounded dog

I’m tired so apologies if this is a weird question and I don’t even know if anyone will answer.

But have you ever had a friend (of the same gender) that you’re really close to and have a great relationship with, and you’re happy with the friendship and everything, but you also sometimes feel like you’re really fucking attracted to them?

You don’t necessarily to change things up but sometimes you also are deep down thinking, ‘sometimes I could totally bang you cause you’re awesome and we’re awesome together but that’s probably creepy’?

I mean obviously there are people out there with FWB relationships, but I’m talking about a friend of the gender that you aren’t as sexually/romantically attracted to or are never romantically/sexually attracted to - and it’s not that you want it to become FWB necessarily, but sometimes you feel like you really are crushing on them?

shit I probably don’t even make sense

posted 10 months ago with 2 notes

  1. faeriequeens said: wow ok why are we the same person. this exact same thing happened to me and the feeling was mutual and it just ended up destroying the friendship ugh why can’t humans not be attracted to everything in sight adfjslkghsgjblskgntg
  2. professional-widow said: WELCOME TO MY LIFE! :D sorry, that’s probably not super helpful, I’m sure you’d rather hear from people who are more guy-oriented. but, 1) it’s totally not creepy, and 2) sexuality is almost always more complex than the labels avaliable to us, imho
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